Posts tagged Life purpose

Patience: The relationships lubricant

By Guru Hellen 2 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Parenting, Relationships, Behavioral health, Conflict resolution, Life teaching and journey, Caregiving.

Patience is a virtue. I have been told that saying a million times and each time it feels like the first time I hear it. Why? Simply because this is a virtue that I have been working on all my life. I am not the most patient of homo sapiens, yet I keep repeating this lesson over and over again. Sometimes I feel like life still feels I have not yet mastered it.

Why is it so easy to quit on your marriage?

By Guru Hellen 3 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Parenting, Relationships, Behavioral health, Conflict resolution, Marital coaching, divorce.

Before you sign those papers, Think. Think about what you're doing before you decide to go to divorce. Think Think about your future, your children's future, what it actually means. I'll tell you what it means. People will tell you it's best to walk out when it doesn't work. Our last one question Did you even try to make it Work? Did you go for counseling? Did you go for coaching? Did you go for therapy?

Gratitude Heals Sore Relationships

By Guru Hellen 3 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Behavioral health, Conflict resolution, Marital coaching, Marriage counseling in Edmonton, Relationship coaching in Edmonton.

Did I feel like journaling? Absolutely no. My head was telling me it was futile and that I was well into failure, and that my gospel of thriving relationships was a hoax. Against this loud negative voice that had grown so strong, I took my pen and book and wrote my way out of negativity.

Shame: Get that mask off!

By Guru Hellen 4 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Relationships, Conflict resolution, Relationship coaching, Lifes challenges, Relationship coaching in Edmonton, Peace.

How many times has society forced you to wear masks that please to them, but make you forget who you really are? What masks are you wearing right now? It is time to peel off those masks.

How to get productive during Covid-19 Lockdown

By Guru Hellen 4 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Parenting, Relationships, Behavioral health, Lifes challenges, Problem solving in marriage, Conflict resolution in marriage, Marriage coaching.

Here we are at unprecedented times, with the economy and everything we believed to be certain, being tested to the limits. We are at a stage in life that we did not foresee only two months ago. we are on lockdown - indoors. we are stuck with our spouses and children or parents for an unspecified time. we still have to live and thrive as we wait out the spread of this deadly virus. Some husbands are re-learning how to live with their wives and children while the wives are learning to be patient with themselves and with each member of the family. We are in another classroom in the home. The question is what to do all the time and so limited spaces, over and over again. We either get smart or get over each other's heads. Here are a few suggestions to avoid the latter scenario.

When you marry a highly competitive spouse…

By Guru Hellen 4 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Relationships, Conflict resolution, Relationship coaching, Marital coaching, Marriage counseling in Edmonton, Lifes challenges, Premarital coaching, Marriage counselling, Problem solving in marriage, Peace.

Marriage is one of the most interesting relationships known to man. Two different souls with different desires and ambitions meet and choose to espouse each other.. Having a competitive spouse can be a big blessing because the spouse can be the engine behind the family’s business or career prosperity. There are other times in the relationship when the dreams become incongruent.

The Reset Button

By Guru Hellen 4 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Relationships, Behavioral health, Conflict resolution, Marriage counseling in Edmonton, Lifes challenges, Marriage counselling, Lifes journey.

During my downtime, I enjoy watching cartoons, especially the classic ones. I am an avid fan of the loony toons, Tom and Jerry, the Flintstones, the Jetsons, Animaniacs and the ever so hilarious Scooby-Doo.

Low self-esteem : The relationships serial Killer

By Guru Hellen 5 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Relationships, Marriage counseling in Edmonton, Lifes journey, Marital coaching in Edmonton, Sparks in relationship, Relationship, Challenges, Financial coaching.

In this millennium it is amazing how much knowledge and expertise we command with a click of a button, but unfortunately, we have not discovered the apps to help us to develop, regain or keep our self- esteem, an essential ingredient in life’s journey.

6 Reasons Resentment Creeps Into Your Relationships and What to Do About It

By Cleveland Clinic -Brain and spine 5 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Parenting, Relationships, Behavioral health, Conflict resolution, Relationship coaching, Marital coaching, Marriage counseling in Edmonton, Lifes challenges.

Defend your own needs, but also practice empathy Couple upset with each other Have you ever felt taken advantage of, or dismissed, by a partner, family member, teacher or boss? That’s resentment rearing its ugly head.

What is in it for me?

By Guru Hellen 5 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Relationships, Relationship coaching, Goal setting in marriage, Marriage, Marriage flames, Spouse needs, Challenges, Goals.

Do you ever wonder what the purpose of marriage is? Do you and your spouse sometimes wonder how other couples seem to have it easy, while you struggle to keep your relationship afloat? Let us explore these questions together

How to stay optimistic

By Guru Hellen 7 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Life lessons, Peace, Conflict, Goal of life, Life challenges, Optimism, Challenges, Goals, Motivational.

Life is an amazing journey. It is full of turns and twists, high peeks and deep dark crevices. sometimes we find ourselves in dark caves that look like a cold, dark dead end. It is still part of the journey; and that is what makes it interesting, challenging and fun. Just like the two sides of a coin, the head and the tail are it’s integral parts. All living things in this planet face challenges; be it plants, animals or human beings.

Confidence – How to identify and silence fear

By Guru Hellen 7 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Life lessons, Childhood dreams, Growing up, Faith, Fear, Love, Peace, Conflict, Goal of life, Middleground, Motivation, Optimism, Relationship, Challenges, Doubts, Goals.

Whether we believe it or not, we are spiritual beings undergoing a physical journey on planet earth. Each one of us has a”raison d’etre”, “Ikigai” or simply said, “A reason for being”. The journey through life is influenced by the spiritual dimension as much as physical dimension. Unfortunately, we often ignore the spiritual side of our being, and hence the effect thereof. Everyday, We are either feeding the positive side or negative side of our spiritual being.

Conflict resolution in relationships

By Guru Hellen 8 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Lifes challenges, Lifes journey, Love, Peace, Conflict, Goal of life, Middleground, Motivation, Optimism, Relationship.

There is an old adage stating that when cups are put in a box, they must clink against each other. Whenever two human beings live or work together, they will inevitably have differences in their points of view, preferences, attitudes, understanding and so on; irrespective of their relationship with each other.

Life’s Goals : Your childhood dreams

By Guru Hellen 8 years ago. Tagged under Life purpose, Goal setting, Childhood dreams, Growing up, Goal of life, Life's goals, Motivational, Life path.

One of the most amazing things in life is watching a child grow up; right from birth when they announce their arrival with a cry. They quickly learn to seek out what they need, cry for it, without caring where they are or who is around them.